Hello All! My name is Big Sister Grenade and I am SELFISH. Yes, I am admitting it. Now before you go judging me, I must inform you that I'm a very giving person (lol). For example, family, friends, Katrina and Japan relief victims, etc. I help out when I can financially. On the other hand, I'm selfish when it comes to the man I'm dating or should I say my man.
I do not believe in sharing a man that I'm in a relationship with. You can have a crush on him and dream the biggest dreams in reference to him, but it's best to keep it all to yourself. If a chick decides to blow a kiss his way he bet not catch it. If a chick is walking towards our direction staring him down he has no reason to make eye contact. As stated in a previous topic some females are ignorant and will do anything to pull the pin out of this grenade. There's plenty of fish in the sea just don't mess with mine. Go out and find your own man.
I'm not one to fight over any man unless their my blood relatives. Yes, you heard me right. Any man that believe it's my duty to fight or even waste my breathe disputing about him with another woman (his mother, other family members, baby mommas, etc.) can keep it moving. I don't share and I definitely do not have time to waste my breath or energy on nonsense. I'm quick to leave a guy right where he is standing if I have to. It's not a secret neither. I'll pack my things in his face all while Jagged Edge is playing (insider ... lol) and will be sure to leave the keys at the front door.
No, I am not the jealous type and never allowed that term to become a part of my character neither. However, I do believe in a thing called respect. I respect him and I demand respect back. I do not think that's too much to ask for. This selfishness derived from past and present day experiences. I have been in sitautaions where a guy felt as if he needed to please is childs mother in order to be happy in our former relationship. Then, I later found myself in a situation where this one guy believed he was the ladies man, he needed everyone else outside of us to stroke his ego. So as you can see I'm selfish and feel as if I have a right be, but it can easily be detoured.
Don't judge me I'm still in my growing process (lol).
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I wasn't going to even get in on this one but I must say something! lol
Hello, I am Lil Sis Grenade and I am NOT Selfish. Yeah, yeah I know ... but you can stop your thinking. I DONT SHARE MY HUSBAND PHYSICALLY. However even my own husband think I need to be a bit more selfish over him.
I grew up where I didn't mind going to the club or parties and watching my husband enjoy himself while dancing with other women. It's been times we were walking around and another woman has brushed up against him or grabbed his ass and he would look at me and ask me did I see and I wouldn't but I didn't mind. I don't mind if he looks at another woman because thats just general nature of a human. You see something that interest you, you look.
This is my take. I do not get upset or offended with my husband on things that I would not want him to get upset with me about. Now, no, I don't brush up against other men nor do I grab their butt but I may occasionally glance in the the direction of the man if something about him caught my eye. Now do I want my husband to flip the fuck out and we argue? No. If I go to a club and I am dancing with another guy do I want my husband to hold that over my head? No. So why would I do that to him?
I am alright with another woman having a little crush on him because I find it amusing that women actually want what I have. I don't get upset but I do inform the woman that it will not go any further than a crush and to understand that it would never be more than that. That normally crushes their crush and then we're back to normal.
I have never been the type to get upset about things like that which is why I think my relationship lasted so long. I do not find the things some people get pissed about disrespectful because that's just not me.
Now for our Readers whats your take? Are you selfish like Big Sis Grenade or are you more laid back like Lil Sis?
SOUND OFF!
3 comments:
Well, Sister Grenades allow me to pull the pin and throw the dam bomb if I may; I am not jealous at all and I actually enjoy seeing women take a once or twice over of MY MAN. I even like the fact that what I have after all these years is still interesting enough for others to want to take a look at.
I still have one idiot wanting him to be the father to her child. {Insider, or is it!!}
You see I have had this problem for over 24 1/2 years now and it has gotten old, but it's something that just happens because we have a bunch of low down skank women out here that will do anything to get in on with what you have. You see some women want to try him on for size..Yea, I said it "ON FOR SIZE!" Some want to see if he will actually get with them. Some want to see what it is that you like so much, so they try their dam best to get him and then you have the women that just don't care. They like the fact that he's with somebody else and they just want some. They want that whorish 2am screwdown knowing he can't stay, but they just want him to be able to say to the clique "YOU KNOW I BEEN HITTIN THAT!"
Well, allow me to show my face of "TRY IT IF YOU WANT TO" and this is what happens when you come at mine:
I WILL GET THAT ASS ON SITE!!
lol to the sister grenades was there any thing for being in between lol...Im selfish of my man too but at the sometimes Im not. It on depends on the situation. Example when my boyfriend and I went to Florida about two years ago it was almost like every white girl was checking him out and I was like wait a minute this is my man every inch of him thats me being selfish and another example would be when we go to the mall and he see an old friend(female), i dont trip about it jus smile, shake their hands keep it moving no reason to be selfish(unless theres a reason)
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