I've come across a great deal of females who believe it's okay to drop their panties without protection. Failing to realize the realities of life; babies and sexually transmitted infections. When it comes to the baby situation many of the females do not know anything more than the guys nickname. Once the baby is born the chick has an opportunity to apply government assistance to keep both healthy, but they (DHS) ask for the fathers information. And what do they know? Nothing, just his nickname or sometimes the first, but not his last name.
Girls will make sure they know his whole family and where everyone lives ... even the same information about the girl he's messing around with. But the title is about his SSN .... you will be lucky to find a girl who know the guy real name!
Let me be honest, never did I know the importance of a SSN until I learned my own and started applying for jobs and college. Soon as I noticed the importance I learned that it's the most public, but secret thing every person has. If a man released this information to you then you knew he trusted you! You knew that you were in a real relationship.
With that being said, if you know his SSN but it's because you took a sneak peak of the card while going threw his wallet and saved the number in your phone or you wrote it on a piece of paper when he left a job application sitting on the computer stand WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
I knew my husbands SSN by the beginning of our third year ... it wasn't because he didn't want to tell me it was because I had never asked. When I'd asked he provided the information as if it was his phone number and I learned the importance of having this information from filling out personal information for him or providing the number to doctors and seeing the look on people faces because we were young and many had expressed that it was rare that the girl didn't have to call the guy for the number to provide the information later.
All in all it is utterly important to obtain his social security number whether you are married or the mother of his child(ren). It will benefit you more than you know. Now we are not saying ask for it and then open up credit cards or put a car or two in his name. That's not utilizing it wisely. We're telling you to be smart about it and do the right thing.
SOUND OFF... So do you know your man social security number? How did you go about obtaining?
2 comments:
I learned my husbands social security number right when I knew this was going to be a long term relationship and it was when I found out I was pregnant with his daughter! Yes, yes and oh yes..I got the number from him and I didn't write it down. I MEMORIZED IT LIKE IT WAS MY OWN!! Yap, I did too.
WHEN MY GIRLS WERE 7 YEARS OLD THEY KNEW HIS SS# AS WELL. I don't half step when it comes to taking care of business and I have never let a situation get to the point that I would forget it. I even know my eldest daughters "BIOLOGICAL" {meaning he's really nobody, but he assisted in getting her here} social security number. Hell, I knew that number by hard before he did. Lol.. I just think that as you teach your children their ABC's you should add just a little more edge to the lesson and teach that child{ren} his social security number for just in case moments.
Trust me when I tell you they will remember it better than you would. {You never know when he might act a fool and you're not around to handle things}... Furthermore, for these young girls having these babies and not knowing the real or full name of the baby daddy Slap Yo'self and get it together. Better yet, where are the parents of these little girls popping off all these dam babies? Oh, probably sitting back adding those new shorties to the Link card for the added Food Stamp amount so that they can get just a few bags of hot flames and quarter juices. Yea, I said it! If the shirt fit, then wear it because your clothes are too dam small anyway. Conway shoppin asses!!
In all of the serious relationships I have been in I know the ssn. I have assisted in filling out paperwork I know what checks look like and I have to know your real first name waaaaaay before we sleep together.
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