8 Ways to Know You're Being Used

8. Self-Esteem Booster

Maybe your the plus-size friend in the group or even the not so pretty one. But you have the confidence of a super model. However your cute pretty friends grabs you as a go along for every mission ... not because your good friends, but because she stands out. Everyone notices her before you. Then you find yourself in the awkward situation were she's cracking jokes about you later to cover it up with the "I'm just playing" line.

7. Image

Men and women, both, choose beauty over brains, but someone individuals are too stupid to realize it. You're pretty enough to walk the carpet with, but you are told to be quiet and look to part.

6. Best Kept Secret

So you are not known amongst his family and friends. You are just as real as Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny. Everyone in your circles has met him, but you cannot say the least in reference to him.

5. Other Chicks

What is this a polygamy camp? He only spends a small amount of time with you or can only visit you late at night. You've heard through the grapevine that you are just one of many. You are possibly sticking around because you love him, have a child(ren) with him, or you figure since you guy have been dating for years you might as well stay committed.

4. Control

Some men like to be in control. they will find the weakest chick and run over her.

3. Rebound

So you had him once and now you have him every now and again. In between he's in relationships with other women and when those fail who do he go to? You. Because you're the one he can always count on right? hmph!

2. Sex

Ever heard a guy ask if you guys can be just 'friends' with benefits? Or 'my girl don't know what she is doing in the bedroom so I can to you to fulfill my satisfaction'. Yes, these are things my peers tell me about the guys they are sleeping with.

1. MONEY

For the love of money, what people won't do? Their only friends with you because you have the funds to pay for everything. S/He's only dating  or sleeping with you because you can help him/her buy a new whip.

Maybe you can SOUND OFF and answer these questions for us ... Are you being used? Do you know someone that's being used and too naive to notice it?

"A wolf in sheep's clothing is still a wolf." Unknown