She Wants What We Have

Envy [en-vee]:
a feeling of discontent or covetousness with regard to another's advantages, success, possessions, etc.

THE ENVIOUS BEST FRIEND...

The best friend is the one we confide in about a lot of stuff, including our man. It never dawns on us that she is envious of what you have. She will never be blunt enough to say it because she know one of three things will occur; lost of information, friendship and/ or a beat down.

Watch what you say to your best friend, especially about what goes on inside your bedroom, as well as, out. She will use it as a way to find out if what you are telling her is true or not. I recommend purchasing a diary or journal to keep all of that personal information for only your viewing. It works for me!

Not only does a diary or journal work, but so does just blatantly letting your mate know how you feel about everything you would normally tell that BFF of yours. Because talking to your mate will bring about some results, telling the BFF, well, lets just say it will ultimately end up in getting something thrown in your face or jealousy!

By the way, choose your friends wisely. The term, friend, tends to be use too loosely.

THE ENVIOUS FAMILY MEMBER...

So not many relationships in your family last, work out, or whatever. But yours do! Break-ups happen and everyone is sad ... Not YOU! And you hate to rain on the cousins, aunts, or even grandma's parade but you can't sit back and be sad and assist them in pouting when your relationship is doing fine and you're happy!

That's when envy kicks in. The behind the back talking, anything you may have shared in confidence the whole family is now hearing and forming or changing their opinions about your man. Their adding their two cents and now ... They are out of their pout mode and into Destroy Your Happiness preparation.

First up, find something on the social networking sites to upset you. You know the secrets poke on his FB page (what's the purpose of poking someone?). Next, play on your phone like their his "other girlfriend". And if all else fails ... they'll try their best to become the other girlfriend!

It happens far too often to be ignored.


THE INFAMOUS BABY MOMMA...

So we can say she lied about taking birth control got pregnant all to piss you off or the baby was born before y'all met and she still isn't over him ... OR ... this can go on and on.

But it's true, baby momma's are infamous! She's the chick that he never had problems with until you came into the picture. No matter if you want to admit it or not these women will forever be in your life as long as your with their child (ren)s father. She has the privileges to call in the middle of the night just to hear his voice and lie saying the baby is sick. She has the audacity to think that because they have a child together she can treat him like a puppet by throwing child support out as a threat. She thinks its okay to show up to the family gatherings and mingle around as if she's wearing more than just the BM title. Oh, how about this one .. she thinks its okay to call and set up "family" pictures with a man that isn't hers but is her child's father, just to save face with her own family.

Well handling these chicks are easier said than done. I have not had to experience this particular woman but I have second hand! This is what seemed to work. When she calls for medicine, don't be too sleepy to ride with him. When she throws out the Child Support scare simply advise him to put himself on and stop all other contributions to teach the her a lesson, oh yeah, have him to keep all in his receipts for court purposes. When she show up to gatherings let her do just that ... show no interest, she'll soon get annoyed with trying so damn hard that she will leave. Lastly, when she calls to give the date and time for pictures, ask for the colors too and make sure you have your matching outfit! (lol)

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