This topic is about the guy who is grown according to government and state age law, but is a child mentally. I am talking the guy who puts video games ahead of his male responsibilities.
The guy who needs to be reminded to wash his ass and take out the trash on a daily basis.
The guy who needs to be taught right from wrong because apparently his momma was too busy bragging on how she is the best single mother to teach him.
The guy who figures he's the best father in the world because he pick his child up on weekends. He believes that spending time with his child (ren) means dropping them off at his moms crib while he goes and kick it.
The guys whose seems to be ready to settle down with a woman but fears that his friends would consider him a sell out.
I'm talking about the guy who believes that emotionally and physically abusing his girl makes him a man.
The guy who believes that being fly is more important than paying rent or opening up a checking account or better yet investing.
The guy who believes that being the head of the house means controlling and dictating who and what can and cannot be done.
The guy who rather live in filth than clean up.
The guys who grew up in a predominantly female household but still forgets to let the toilet seat down.
Now that thats out the way. I wonder if you ... yeah you there reading this post ... know any of the Manboy references personally. Do any names of people you know come up?
Are you one of the women allowing the Manboy to exisit in your home or relationship?
Now it's easy to put the blame soley on the Manboy himself but if you are constantly allowing the game to be played while the garbage piles up or the stench of his body to remain the smell of your home then you are labeled as a Manboy Inabler.
Are you going to work all day while he sleeps the day away or gets high all day and drink all night but your making sure his pockets are filled with your hard earned money so that he doesn't look bad in front of his friends.
This could be your man, your brother, cousin, or friend you can't let go of. The guy you have to feed, provide shelter for, washed his clothes, and care for him when he should know how to do these things for himself.
He is not a man, but a child that will never grow up if you keep sheltering him.
3 comments:
its okay to be a man child only to a certain extend lol
I am not sure when being a man child became Ok but my father was and still is a man. he has set the standard for what a man is and should be. Every relationship I have been in has been held to these standards. A real man knows when it is time to play and a time to take care of business. But I will be damned if you think I will be laid up with some funky ass nigga. The same goes for me giving my hard earned money to look good in front of your boys. If I have washed your clothes,maintained a roof over your head and hot water to wash your ass I have done more than my part. Trick off the other one's money cause I am tapped our being the woMAN. I will let it go before I let it be me. You better ask about me.
although several "topics" of equal importance were outlined in the post; I will stick to the title because it describes the man that pisses a women off the most. He's probably smart, handsome, charming and give a women a orgasm like nobody"s business; but other than those traits, he's worthless. Women can be blamed for some of this because when we was of child age we let him slide and never made him be responsible for his actions, failed to teach him manners and how respecting women was a valueable assest to being a Man and finally made him feel worthless because his dog ass daddy left. This trend continued as he reached his teen years because his girlfriends cared more about the outside than what he was made of on the inside. These young ladies lacked the maturity to "demand" not "help" him realize his potential. Now he's a "man child" that women(I say that lightly) have to deal with. He is now set in his lazy ways and because its worked in the past "who the hell are you" to tell him different. This Manchild will never get it until someone stops "giving it to him"....The easy life. But this wont happen because some women with low self esteem but a big bank account is having multiple "O's" right . He's using his smart, looks, charm and superior sexual talent against her so that he "man child"!!!can go right back on the couch in those 3 day old sweatpants playing Madden
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