Have a Baby By Me, Baby and Get on Welfare

We all know someone that's a groupie. They will never admit it, but its definitely the truth. You know the chick that makes it her business to hit up All-Star Weekend every year in all hopes of smashing, oops ... I mean meeting that one Ball Player. She can barely afford to pay her rent, but she somehow can scrape up enough money every year for this one trip. Secretly toting around a turkey baser in her purse as a come up. To her amazement she gets lucky ...

She finally gets popped off, but dude denies the baby. Later paternity test proves that he is indeed the father and bang she feels that she has came up. Later realizing the agony of only receiving $1000 a month doesn't cover the cost of diapers, food, the weekly trips to the nail shop, and hitting up Bloomingdale's so her child can outshine the other kids. 

Or do you know that chick from high school who dated the star ball player with high hopes of him making it to the league. She figured it will be her come up to make it out the projects. Although, he was openly cheating on her with the chick from her circle she still managed to get pregnant by him. Well things did not go as planned because he isn't as good as Lebron and could barely make it out of Junior College.

However, most of the ladies are not as fortunate as others and have to settle for the Hood Rich, dope boy. You know the one with the fancy car, still living in his grandmother basement, who already have four baby mommas (but you want to add to the list), yeah him...

On any given day you can walk into each one of their cribs and find stacks of letter from the department of human services.

"I'm tired of gold digging B**ches getting pregnant on purpose"-Kanye West 

Aren't we all, but remember Kanye, you also said "I aint saying she a gold digga, but she aint messing with a broke ni**a."

Rapper 50 Cent encouraged the female population to have a baby by him and become a millionaire. The media portrayed many other rich moguls repeating the lyrics therefore enlightening a situation that sometimes can bankrupt a rich man.

But as I pay attention to these shows on television glamorizing the lives of ex's/divorcee's and baby mommas I see that they are often riding with someone else. Their cars have rental plates, some are never paying for their meals and all of them are out looking for another rich man to attempt to suck dry.

When in actuality they have bleed dry their men, played the independent role, or they were getting the funds for having a child by a man with money and initially they were living the good life and all to often the man was able to prove to courts that all the money they were shelling out to these women was not being spent on their child(ren) and now they are allowed to give the bare minimum and the rest either goes into a college fund or it doesn't go to anything at all ... he gets to keep it.

Now you're getting a measly $1,000 a month and that's not enough to cover rent, car payments on that new Infinity truck, and other bills so you are subject to resulting back to what you were used to before your struck gold. Welfare.

All we can say is that we hope that you are able to cope and get back to normal. Learn from your mistakes. And move on hopefully supporting yourself now and attempting to find a man that you want to be with for more than a get rich quick scheme.